Who makes the calls?
You choose. Children and grandchildren can call their loved one anytime and use Shared Lives prompts to guide the conversation. Or the included AI interviewer can call them at a chosen time. The AI interviewer is free with every programme and entirely optional.
What if they’re not “techy”?
That’s fine. Family-led conversations happen on an ordinary phone call, with prompts shown to the family member asking the questions. If you choose the optional AI interviewer, your loved one simply answers their own telephone — landline or mobile — with no app, login or screen.
How do I choose between 8, 12, 26 and 52 weeks?
Choose the pace and depth that will feel comfortable for them. Eight weeks captures the essential eras; 12 weeks follows our recommended chapter arc; 26 and 52 weeks give memories more room to unfold. Every option costs £79.
What happens after the final week?
New weekly prompts stop, and any scheduled AI interviewer calls end automatically. We finish shaping the family-led and interviewer-led recordings into chapters and prepare the illustrated Life Book and media archive for download. There is no rolling interview subscription.
Are the questions scripted?
Each week has a clear life theme and carefully designed prompts, but the conversation is not a questionnaire. On family-led calls, children and grandchildren see suggested follow-ups as the story unfolds. If you use the optional AI interviewer, it asks those questions naturally aloud.
Can we choose the photos and videos?
Yes. The family selects the images that illustrate each chapter and can add relevant video where available. Shared Lives brings the words and media together; you keep control of the family material.
What do the chapter QR codes open?
Each QR code links to that chapter’s original voice recordings and its selected photos and videos. Someone reading the book can scan a chapter and hear the storyteller behind the words.
Is the finished book ours?
Yes. The downloadable Life Book and its media archive are included in the £79 programme and belong to your family. You can save, share and keep them independently of Shared Lives.
Can we order a printed book?
Yes. Once the digital book is ready, an A5 full-colour hardback is £39.99 and a full-colour paperback is £24.99. Both retain the chapter QR codes linking to recordings and media.
Does she know it’s recorded?
Always. Whether family makes the call or the optional AI interviewer does, the conversation begins with a clear recording notice and spoken permission. They can pause or stop any time and decide what is kept.
Who can see what she shares?
She decides, plainly: just her, family only, or everyone she invites. Her wishes go only to the people she names. No surprises — that’s a rule.
Can I gift it for a specific day?
Yes — after checkout you’ll get a beautiful QR code to print and put inside their card. Together, the family can choose the programme length and begin a guided call whenever they like. If wanted, they can also choose the included AI interviewer and a time for it to make the call.